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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton
Yeah, she does. She agrees that my needs/wants are legitimate, and says she's sorry it is how it is with her...but we get no closer to any progress.
Yep, fully agree on that last part. I've told her that too, and she doesn't argue with the reasoning....though she says she definitely does want us to stay together (as do I). Completely agree that counselling is the next step - I'm working on that, slowly. She's agreed to go, if I organise it.
I like this solution!  But I can't see me pulling that out of the bag. It's just never been my way, and I think that's a reason she chose me. I take your point that maybe that's all the more reason for doing it, but...we'll see. Never say never, I guess!
Thanks for the input, guys.  |
I had a dry spell with the ex. It turns out she was getting it from somewhere else.
I'm not saying that's your case, but I would pay attention to things that don't seem "right."
Funny story, same ex is pissed because I moved on after the divorce. Women, go figure.