DriveHard -
I was in the first third of your post, appreciating the manner of it.
And then: "SA LIED TO YOU THE WHOLE WAY TO TRY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY."
This is just nothing but hateful
cr*p. It is near-slanderous, an accusation made by someone who has absolutely no knowledge of the facts, the statements made, the context, nor the human being(s) involved.
Notwithstanding my contribution to the Red Cross, I am finished.