[C2YT]

As others have said everyone's journey is different.

I think the problem lies in your investment into their health. What they do is our of your control. No reason to get frustrated because they don't want to hit the gym.

No to be rude, but this strikes me as the father who wants his kid to play football because he did. You want your family to join your journey, and do as you do.

Focus on doing things with your family members that they want to do, and you will find it to be joyful instead of painstaking.